Divorce.
This is a difficult subject and unpleasant by it's nature. Though I know some people who have been divorced I have no personal experience of it. But Jesus taught on divorce and so I'm going to do a post on it.
Some Pharisees came to him and tried to trap him by asking, "Does our Law allow a man to divorce his wife for whatever reason he wishes?" Jesus answered, "Haven't you read the scripture that says that in the beginning the Creator made people male and female? And God said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and unite with his wife, and the two will become one.'1 So they are no longer two, but one. No human being must separate, then, what God has joined together." The Pharisees asked him, "Why, then, did Moses give the law for a man to hand his wife a divorce notice and send her away?" Jesus answered, "Moses gave you permission to divorce your wives because you are so hard to teach. But it was not like that at the time of creation. I tell you, then, that any man who divorces his wife for any cause other than her unfaithfulness, commits adultery if he marries some other woman." His disciples said to him, "If this is how it is between a man and his wife, it is better not to marry." Jesus answered, "This teaching does not apply to everyone, but only to those to whom God has given it. For there are different reasons why men cannot marry: some, because they were born that way; others, because men made them that way; and others do not marry for the sake of the Kingdom of heaven. Let him who can accept this teaching do so." Matthew 19:3-12 Good News Bible2
According to Jesus, there is only one Scriptural reason or excuse for divorce, if the other partner commits adultery.
When a man has taken a wife and married her, and it happens that she finds no favor in his eyes, because he has found some uncleanness in her, then let him write her a bill of divorce and put it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she has departed from his house, she goes and becomes another man's; and the latter husband hates her and writes her a bill of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house; or if the latter husband dies, he who took her to be his wife her former husband, who sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife after she is defiled. For that is hateful before Jehovah. And you shall not cause the land to sin, which Jehovah your God gives you for an inheritance. Deuteronomy 24:1-4 Modern King James Version
Jesus makes it clearer:
"It was also said, 'Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a written notice of divorce.' But now I tell you: if a man divorces his wife for any cause other than her unfaithfulness, then he is guilty of making her commit adultery3 if she marries again; and the man who marries her commits adultery also. Matthew 5:31-32 Good News Bible
The Greek word translated as “unfaithfulness” here is: πορνεία, porneia, pronounced as: por-ni'-ah From πορνεύω, (porneuō, pronounced as: porn-yoo'-o); harlotry (including adultery and incest); figuratively idolatry: - fornication.4
Other translations of the Bible use different expressions in verse 32 including:
“except for a matter of sexual sin...” Analytical Literal Translation.
“unless she has committed some terrible sexual sin...” Contemporary English Version.
“except for a matter of sexual sin...” English Standard Version.
“saving for the cause of fornication...” King James Version.
The Message adds: “You can't use legal cover to mask a moral failure.”
The LORD says, "If a man divorces his wife, and she leaves him and becomes another man's wife, he cannot take her back again. This would completely defile the land. Isaiah 3:1a Good News Bible
Isaiah and Deuteronomy also make it clear that according to the Scriptures, once divorced there's no remarriage to the same person.
Regardless of whether one has been divorced or not Jesus said: "I am telling you the truth: no one can see the Kingdom of God without being born again."
I have referred to several English translations of the Bible and commentaries in writing this which is made easy by e-sword, a free downloadable program. For further information I recommend reading the Bible.
© Ken Glasgow 2013 Last edited 14 March 2021
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1Then the LORD God made the man fall into a deep sleep, and while he was sleeping, he took out one of the man's ribs and closed up the flesh. He formed a woman out of the rib and brought her to him. Then the man said, "At last, here is one of my own kind--- Bone taken from my bone, and flesh from my flesh. 'Woman' is her name because she was taken out of man." That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united with his wife, and they become one. Genesis 2:21-24 Good News Bible
2See also: Mark 10:2-12.
3Jesus makes it clear that causing another to sin is a serious matter, see also: Matthew 18:6-7, Mark 9:42 & Luke 17:1-2
4Strong's Hebrew and Greek Dictionaries.